so i am looking at pictures of some new film and its ‘going to be huge’ on account of its ‘hot male actors getting their kit off’,  i know i discussed earlier about how such a lot of our society is based on looks, but this new angle occurred to me; that for a long long time society would see pictures of naked or scantily dressed women and they would be deemed ‘hot’ without anyone even looking at their face, as long as their body fell into the socially accepted image of hotness at the time they were labelled hot, i am not here to judge that , as i said before i dont judge, but i did think it was odd these women were seen as automatically attractive because their body followed socially accepted norms, see me i differ i look at faces as well, i think a lot of plain or even unattractive women were labelled as hot purely on their body, now it is happening with men, this film automatically labelled its male actors as hot because of their hardly covered body types, i looked at their faces and thought ughh that’s not hot! again i understand this is personal and others would disagree but i guess i don’t object to that,  what i reject here is looking at someone, in whatever state of undress and see a body and proclaim its hotness, i see a whole person their face, their hair, and i seriously have never found facial hair attractive so guys with beards form a queue near the exit please 🙂 but also i am going to be a little controversial here i like to get to know someone first, there i said it , yes i went there , i consider personality an important part of whether i decide if someone is attractive 🙂 my secret is out , of course saying all this i have to confess first hubby had a beard – no go back to exit chaps i didnt say i liked it just that he had one- and this husband father of all my children and my reason d’être, love of my life these last 23 years, was in fact a clear case of love at first sight (and yup that really is true) he walked into the room; i was happy chatting to my friend, hubby walked in, my mouth fell open as i muttered ‘god he’s hot’ and all my clothes fell off , yes i know 🙂 so go ahead sue me 🙂 


2 responses

  1. I am of a mind…and gravitate to the same. I care nothing for the outside (well, unless it smells then I have an issue)…but I really don’t. I hate that women are objectified, hate that males have become so too. Give me a good mind, a sharp mind, full of wit and humor and common sense, and honesty….the rest is all gravy…some more than others…but gravy just the same.

  2. i am totally with you on that whole smells thing! i really cant bear bad smells sorry for ny typos my chihuahua is helping me type! or not….anyways i have been known to ransack the whole house on account of smelling something bad and one time i came back from holiday and soon as i walked in the house i pulled all carpets up and threw them out, i just cant live with bad smells! of course now i have to live with no carpet as i cant afford new carpet, but hey who doesnt love the sound of creaking floorboards? and splinters are good for testing your reflexes , thats what i am telling my kids ….have a super weekend xx

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